Are children invited to the wedding?

Only a few children over the age of 10 are invited. If your kid(s) are traveling with you to San Francisco, we're more than happy to help you find trustworthy childcare during your time here.

How do I know if I can bring a plus one?

Your invite should include all who are invited.

Where should I stay? What accommodations would you recommend?

San Francisco has lots of options, but we highly recommend booking early and looking for deals. Check out the "Lodging" section for details!

Can I get you something that isn't on your registry?

Next year we will be selling most of our belongings, packing up, and traveling for six months — so we need less stuff. If you'd rather buy a physical gift, we added some useful travel gear to our registry.

What's the dress code?

Cocktail attire or casual elegant to match the modern restaurant setting.

Should we arrive promptly at 5:00pm?

Yes please!

Will dinner be served?

Absolutely! Trou Normand is known for their food and cocktails. We will have passed hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour, followed by dinner.

Will there be dancing?

We plan to have fun music and possibly a small dance floor, but dancing won't be the main attraction.

What time is the event over?

Last call is at 10:30pm, but we'll likely leave the restaurant around 11:00pm and head to a nearby bar for drinks afterward!

I can't make it. Are there other ways I can celebrate with you?

Yes! We'll be organizing informal drinks in NYC later this year, keep an eye out. We're also planning celebrations with family and family friends in Indianapolis and Bangkok.